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Scan my last 7 days in transcripts, email/chat JSONL, and WhatsApp on @LocalMCP Find 5 people who deserve a specific warm WhatsApp/email/Meet message from me. See ~/Dropbox/notes/unreasonable-gestures.md for actual messages I've sent - to use as examples. Pick people where I may have missed something specific, like invisible reliability work, quietly carrying pressure, a brave/good question, unusual ownership, creating an opening for me/Straive, effort that got only transactional feedback, ... Skip people I have already thanked in the last 3 months. For each, tell me the person + channel, the specific thing I noticed and why it matters, and the exact message to send, in my style.

I advise people that people skills are important in the AI era. Now, I’m using AI to help me with people skills. This morning, I wrote a script to export my WhatsApp conversations this year. That makes it easy to feed it into AI models. Then I used my Local MCP connector and asked Claude: Who are people in my life that most deserve an unreasonable gesture of thanks and what would that be? ...

At the end of my 2021 graduation interview, All India Radio asked: Interviewer: What would, if you are asked to give back something to the country, what would be that? Anand: I really don’t know. At this stage, I don’t know what I’m capable of and what I can contribute, but whatever it will be, I suspect the bulk of it will come later towards my career. ...

In 2012, I started Gramener with half a dozen friends. This week, we were acquired by Straive, a part of Barings Private Equity Asia. How do you feel? I feel like the father of the bride. Gramener was registered on 26 Feb. A day before my daughter’s birthday. I’ve spent more time with Gramener than my daughter. That makes Gramener my elder child. Who’s moving into a new household. Along with me. (I feel like சகலகலா சம்மந்தி.) ...

Advice from Tal Ben-Shahar, who teaches a Harvard class “Positive Psychology”, or how to get happy. 1. Give yourself permission to be human. When we accept emotions – such as fear, sadness, or anxiety – as natural, we are more likely to overcome them. Rejecting our emotions, positive or negative, leads to frustration and unhappiness. 2. Happiness lies at the intersection between pleasure and meaning. Whether at work or at home, the goal is to engage in activities that are both personally significant and enjoyable. When this is not feasible, make sure you have happiness boosters, moments throughout the week that provide you with both pleasure and meaning. ...